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ANOTHER ANGLE TO REJECTION

Rejection doesn’t reallly mean you are bad or not good enough, sometimes it might just be you seeking relevance from the wrong place or seeking gratification from the wrong person or crowd.  Try painting a mental picture of a nurse seeking engagement in a fashion shop or a chef hounding an engineering outlet for employment, similarly a rake  should not find its way into the kitchen- if all these situations happens they should all be prepared for serial rejection, as the same routine of activities is certain to produce similar results.  Fine you have been rejected again, please take a stop and reflect within yourself with these questions; 1. Why was I rejected?  2. Am I seeking acceptance/relevance from the wrong people/ place ? 3. Do I have the needed qualities to secure a place with this people/place ?  4. What skill do I have that will add value to this person/place ?  After providing definite answers to these questions you should know your stand and the reason for your now worrisome